Day ??? Pornfree: A New Perspective on Addiction

Hello, friends! Today, let’s talk about something important. It’s about fighting against porn addiction. One brave person, Nadgel, shared some thoughts and ideas that can help us all.

No More Counting Days

Nadgel stopped counting the days of staying away from porn. Why? Because it is not about the days anymore. It is about changing how we think. Nadgel realized that labeling oneself as a “severely addicted scumbag” can keep a person stuck in a cycle of shame. Instead of focusing on past failures, it is better to think about the present and future.

Am I Still Addicted?

This question is key. Nadgel says, “No, I’m not!” This shift in thinking is powerful. It’s important to believe in your ability to overcome challenges. You are more than your past choices. You can choose a new path.

Viewing Characters as Real

Nadgel had another important insight about how to view characters in porn. Instead of seeing them as objects for pleasure, what if we see them as real beings? This change in perspective can make a big difference.

A friend pointed out that just because someone fantasizes about something does not mean they want to do it in real life. Thinking of these characters as real entities with lives and feelings can help you respect them more. It can make it easier to walk away from porn.

Finding Support and Perspective

Nadgel encourages everyone to share their thoughts and struggles. Writing things down helps. It also helps to hear from friends. Support from loved ones can lift you up.

Staying determined is important. Each small step counts. You can change how you think and feel about addiction.

Take Care of Yourself

Remember, you are not alone in this fight. Many people face similar challenges. Take care of yourself and stay strong.

If you ever feel down, think about Nadgel’s experience. Changing your mindset can be a big step. You can overcome this. Let’s support each other on this journey!